Garey Meabon is the subject of the following series of posts on the backcountry.net website in 2001.
Eric Jensen posted the following on July 12, 2001:
"If you read the PCT (Pacific Crest Trail) journals as I do, sometimes
you get interested in the folks who spend the time and effort to put
together their reflections on the trail. When I enjoy a
particular journal I like to send a quick note to the hiker letting
them know that. One such person was Garey Meabon. Although
fighting terminal cancer, Garey embarked on the PCT last summer with
two younger companions. After reading his journal (via
www.pcta.org) about the 200 miles he covered on the trail I sent my
regards to Garey and inquired into his plans to resume the hike
northward this summer. Sadly, I learned from his wife Zoe that Garey
had passed away last November. Her message was heartfelt and
reflected Garey's passion for the trail as well as the PCTA. It
touched me so much I thought I would share it with you (with her
permission):"
Hi Eric,
I'm Garey's wife, Zoe. I'm so happy you read Garey's journal and
wrote to him. Sadly, he passed away November 13, 2000.
I can't tell you how much this hike meant to Garey. For the last year
he was alive he planned, studied, lived and dreamed this hike. I truly
believe it kept him alive longer than the doctors had diagnosed. He had
every intention of returning to the trail this year, but it was not to
be. My favorite part of his hike was the last three days he was
out, near Sierra City. He spent the time completely alone, with nature.
He made tapes for me every day and the feelings he expressed were
awesome. After coming home, his health failing rapidly, he never
stopped mentioning the freedom he felt on the trail.
People asked if I was upset with Garey for going on the hike and
leaving me home knowing he didn't have much time left. The doctors had
given Garey one year to live when he first found out he had cancer. I
wanted him to sit in a chair and not move so he would be here forever.
After the first year and so many adjustments, I would go to work and
return home at night with him waiting for me to return. He had
mentioned the hike before he was ill and how someday he would like to
do something like that when he retired. I told him it would be
wonderful if he could get out there and accomplish that.
After hearing that, he started looking up everything he could find on
the computer about the PCTA. It became a driving force in his life. He
was so alive and excited, there was no stopping him. He had every
intention of completing the trail as he spent thousands of dollars and
many hours buying and packing his equipment for the entire journey. I
still have his re-supply boxes, unopened, that I was to mail him along
the way. It's too painful right now to go through them so I have just
put them aside for now. Garey was a wonderful man. He couldn't do
anything about his cancer, so he used it to help others. We went to a
support group for other cancer patients and they couldn't wait to see
him every week to hear and be a part of his journey. It let them know
that they too could live a dream and not give up just because of this
dreadful disease. I could go on and on about this Man I love so much,
but will end now.
Thank you so much for writing. It makes me love him even more to know
he is still touching people even though not here. Do something you have
always wanted to do but have been putting it off. Enjoy life and
all it has to offer.
Sincerely,
Zoe
July 12, 2001 Jim & Ginny Owen responded to the above posting:
Thank you for sharing Zoe's letter. We met Garey (and Jonathan and Ryan) at
Scissors Crossing last year, then ran into him again at Idyllwild after he
had decided to get off the trail. We missed him by less than a day in
Northern California and were very disappointed. We were very struck by his
excitement about what he was doing. He told us that he couldn't regret
having attempted the trail, even though he wasn't able to go as far as he
had hoped. He said, "You don't realize how lucky you are." That line came
back to us often during our hike. It has so many levels - lucky to be
hiking the PCT, certainly, but more than that, lucky to be healthy and
alive. We take so much for granted. Garey didn't. He couldn't. He knew
how precious every moment was, both on the trail, and in our lives. We are
lucky to have the time, the health, and the desire to spend our days walking
in beautiful places. We try not to forget that.
Ginny and Jim